It is never too early to teach your toddler proper table manners. As a matter of fact, training your child early is proven more effective and helpful in instilling values to them that they will carry on as they get older.
Teaching toddlers table manners can be a tough act to do. Therefore little tricks and proper communication are the keys in making it a successful endeavor. Keep in mind that teaching table manners is a continuous process that children eventually adapts as they practice it over a long period of time. It is not something that you instill to your toddler once guests come over. Table manners are more than traditions or social nods; they are expressions of your toddler learning to be courteous.
- Experience is always the best teacher. Setting good example to your toddler is the best way of teaching him to be courteous around the table. Always say “thank you” and “please” when you need anything and ask for help if you need to reach something across the table.
- Keep it simple. Teach your toddler one to two table manners at a time to avoid overwhelming your toddler with rules.
- Set up a reward system in which your toddler gets a prize whenever he’s able to follow. For instance, you can give cookies for each polite behavior observed at the table.
- Recognized your toddler’s efforts and applaud him for always trying.
- Keep your expectations on a realistic level. Don’t forget that toddlers and there’s a learning curve and good habits can take a while to form.
- Some table manners you can teach your toddler include:
- Basic table manner that your toddler should know is to not talk when him mouth is full.
- Never put an entire sandwich, no matter how small it is, straight into the mouth. Eat it in small portions.
- Train your toddler not to rest his elbows on the table but also say it’s okay to put part of the upper arm on the table.
- Remind your toddler to take his time and not be in a hurry to finish eating. Aside from being unpleasant, it is also unhealthy to just gulp down large portion of food.
Teaching proper toddler behavior is one of the most challenging but at the same time rewarding part of parenting. Proper table manner is an important social skill that your toddler can definitely use throughout his life. It says a lot about your child’s personality and how well he was raised.
