A Tribute to Moms Who Have Kids with Special Needs

A Tribute to Moms Who Have Kids with Special Needs

It’s weird (in a good way) how a lot of women, who have met for the first time, could easily click and bond with one another when they find out they’re all moms. Having children, after all, can immediately spawn dozens of stories in a heartbeat.

This is more so true when moms of kids with special needs meet. I’ve found so many kindred souls online who exactly know what I have gone, or are going, through with my son who has cerebral palsy. There are dozens of them I’ve yet to meet face-to-face but I feel this strong connection every time we exchange emails or comment on each other’s Facebook statuses. I always know they “get” me the same way I “get” them.

I forwarded e-mail in one of the e-groups I belong to affirmed that we are members of a very elite sorority. “Some of us were invited to join immediately, some not for months or even years. Some us even tried to refuse membership, but to no avail,” wrote the anonymous author.

All of us have one thing in common – we are mothers of children with special needs. And regardless of how different those needs are, we have mutual respect and empathy for all the women who walk in our shoes. I found myself smiling when I read, “We are knowledgeable. We have educated ourselves with whatever materials we could find. We know ‘the’ specialists in the field, ‘the’ neurologists, ‘the’ hospitals, ‘the’ wonder drugs, ‘the’ treatments. Without formal education, we could become board certified in neurology, endocrinology, and psychiatry.” Indeed, I was once mistaken for a nurse after fluently explaining my son’s condition to a new doctor.

Since our journey began, we’ve greeted each morning wondering how we’d make it through another day and rest each night not sure, but marveling, how we are able to do it.

As moms of special needs’ kids, we have learned to deal with anything life throws at us because we’ll never stop believing in miracles, that the potentials of our children know no bounds in that, with faith, we will always be given the strength to survive one day at a time.

Sources:  Write, Breathe, Live & Ruth Manimtim-Floresca of Smart Super Women


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