Pregnancy–a wonderful stage ushering in a new and changed life for a family. With pregnancy comes many adjustments in preparation for your little bundle of joy’s coming, and these do not only include stuff you can buy. More importantly, though, pregnancy is about strengthening the family bond with the coming of another member.
As much as there are women whose pregnancy are troubled by complications, family relationships also run the risk of being tested because of pregnancy’s requisites from everyone’s time, effort, and finances.
To make pregnancy easier and keep relationships healthy during pregnancy, following these may help:
See a couple counseling expert specializing on pregnancy matters.
While it is basically the women who bear the brunt of pregnancy from swollen feet to periodical tummy pains, not to mention nausea and vomiting, the men should fulfill their part of the bargain, so to speak. It is only in understanding deeply the process during pregnancy that men can fully appreciate what lies before both of you, and it should never be otherwise. Whether it’s going to be having to stick with you in your crucial first trimester, your husband must know your conditions as much as you do.
Engage your children in discussions during pregnancy
Young children behave unpredictably towards pregnancy and a new unborn sibling. Some get very excited, but others become jealous. Engaging them in conversation during pregnancy–about what name to give their siblings, letting them talk to your new baby by holding your growing tummy, etc. will make your children feel that they belong. During pregnancy, make sure not to send the wrong message to your kids–preferential treatment, most especially. Doing the same activities that you usually do at home will make your children feel as special as their unborn sibling. Strive to strike a balance between attention for your children and your upcoming baby.
If you can afford it, hire a nanny or helper to look after household chores for you during pregnancy.
Doing the dishes, cleaning the house, and doing the laundry will gradually become tedious for you as you go on with your pregnancy. If you do not have one yet, it is wise to hire someone to do these for your during pregnancy if finances permit. Having someone take care of these will not only save you effort and stress during pregnancy; it will also allow you to spend more time with your family, especially your children.
Aside from these tips, make it a point to take care of your body by going to regular check ups and eating healthy to save you and your family the trouble of worrying about your health during pregnancy.
